And. I’m done.

by debi9kids on May 26, 2015

I have quit writing before.
And come back.
And every time I have quit it’s because I get tired of being stalked by my ex’s mistress.
And every time I “come back” it’s because I don’t want her to “win” and take something away from me that I love.

Well.
She wins.

Officially “wins”.

I can not, and will not, allow her one more moment to research my children or their lives anymore.

She has tortured me for years by following me from one website to another…
needing to know what blogs I read, what crafts I make, what foods I prepare, what photos I take, etc and it’s unnerving.

But last night, when I realized she is, in fact, researching my children, I could not sleep.

I am terrified of this woman.

I had every intention of taking my blog in a new direction, in a collaboration with my best friend Angela, and I still intend on doing that.
But for now, I am “going in hiding”.
And I’m “hiding” my children.

I deleted my Twitter.
I’ve made my Instagram private and will delete anyone I don’t know.
My Facebook is already private.
My child she was texting has a new phone and has blocked her number and I have done the same (although she texted me from Russ’ phone.)
And I have ZERO intention of posting ANYTHING about my children publicly ever again.

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How the hell did I miss this????

by debi9kids on May 26, 2015

While freaking out and realizing my stalker was back with a vengeance,
I missed something.

And that something has me thoroughly FREAKED out.
miss this

She is searching my children.
And frankly,
that’s crossing well over the “creepy” line.

And while I understand that I have a blog and anyone who wants to can come on here and do the same thing,
it is VERY different when
A. The person searching HATES me
B. The person searching helped to destroy my family.

I am officially terrified of this woman.

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