About Me

Welcome to my world, where 8 was never enough, so we had 9

There was “talk” of having more someday.

I wanted to. He didn’t.

So he did. And I didn’t

This is our journey,

Mistakes and all,

From start to finish.

Life with 9 kids, where we’re starting our lives over after moving from suburban NJ to a teeny tiny town in PA, far away from most of our family and friends.

And starting our lives completely over after infidelity….

It’s a leap of faith every day as we deal with the normal every day struggles and some of the not so “normal”.

Welcome to Who Says 8 Is Enough.

I’m Debi (also known as debi9kids)

Blessed beyond belief and most days reminding myself of that fact.

The other days…. just remembering to breathe.

After all, tomorrow is another day.

A blessed day.

ps You might want to start with Our Story to get to know us better

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Kim December 15, 2011 at 9:36 am

Debi,
I am so sorry that life has turned down a different path from what you wanted or expected.

Here Dave and I were having some problem, but I was me who wanted to step out, I did not, we talk and now we have an open relationship. Partly because we can’t part dueto finances. There are many paths to choose from, I hope you choose what’s best for you.

Love,
Kim

Divorce is never an answer. Counselling and forgiveness is! My husband was unfaithful to me but I loved him enough to forgive him and every day for the last 6 years is a challenge but after almost 21 years of marriage it is all worth it in the end. Whatev March 5, 2012 at 3:37 pm

Awesome site and story. God bless you and be with you in every way!

debi9kids March 18, 2012 at 11:10 am: Thank you for your encouragement.

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